Happiness Is A Choice

"You've never met a happy person who didn't choose to be."

Lately, life has felt like it is teeming with countless ups and downs. It's easy to believe that happiness is a consequence of the right circumstances, the right achievements, or the right relationships. But the more I've observed, the more I've realized:

• Context Over Circumstances: It's not about what happens to us but how we interpret it. Two people can go through the same situation; one comes out broken, the other comes out stronger. It's the context they place the event in.
• Internal Triumphs Over External: While a promotion, a new car, or a vacation can give us temporary joy, it's the internal battles we conquer that lead to lasting happiness. Overcoming a fear, letting go of a grudge, learning to be patient, and trusting there is something to learn to serve you into the future - these are victories of the soul.
• Gratitude Is The Game Changer: When we focus on what we don't have, it's easy to feel deprived. But when we start counting our blessings, our whole perspective shifts. It's about realizing that a lot of what we have today was once something we only hoped for.

So, next time you feel happiness eluding you, remember: It's not about waiting for the storm to pass, but about learning to dance in the rain. 🌧️💃

Because, at the end of the day, happiness isn't an outcome; it's a decision.

Dave Clare

Chief Evolution Officer, Circle Leadership Global.